Parenting Skills

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by how much you have to do? Why we have to do less

Too much to do as parent? How to work smarter, not harder so you can enjoy your kids more. As a working mum, I wish that my brain hadn’t often felt like a computer with too many tabs open. Or that it had not got to the point where an essential visit to my GP seemed self-indulgent. I wish that when my children were growing up, I hadn’t often bitterly observed how ‘having it all’…
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Preparing your little one for their first ballet lesson

Starting ballet lessons is an exciting time for everyone, children as well as parents, but how can you prepare your little one for their first class? We spoke to Julie Hurley, from Dancewearcentral.co.uk and asked her to share her top tips on how to make sure your child is as prepared as possible for that all important first ballet lesson. Check they have the right dance clothes This may sound…
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Manners are everything - Top tips for parents (however old their children) & for well-mannered children

Most adults appreciate a child with manners, in fact everyone appreciates manners. Who wouldn’t like to know that their child is polite and helpful when they aren’t around! Having good manners is part of being a responsible and respectful human being. It’s about not only looking out for yourself and in many cases putting someone else first. In so many cases, manners fall by the…
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How to stay calm when you don’t feel it using NLP

Do you know people who calmly swan around life without anything bothering them? Child meltdowns just seem to go over their heads. They bounce through a busy day with lightness and humour. Annoying aren’t they? Staying calm when you don’t feel it is an art, and the good news is that, using some techniques from Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), you too can learn this art of serene calmness…
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30 hours free childcare - Exclusive interview with Education and Childcare Minister Sam Gymiah

London Mums caught up with Education and Childcare Minister Sam Gymiah to discuss the outcome of the 30 hours free childcare consultation. This Q&A contains important information for all families with pre-schoolers children. What childcare support does the government already offer to parents? SG: We are already doing lots to help families with childcare because we know it is vital to you…
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Parenting Skills

When is a child old enough to babysit?

People can be prosecuted for neglect if they leave children on their own and something goes wrong. This is a highly contentious issue and one that becomes even more complicated when contemplating when a child is old enough to be left in charge of other children and babysit. Rospa and the NSPCC both have published guidance as to when a child is considered ready to babysit, their advice can be found…
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HOW TO SAY NO AND STAY FRIENDS USING NLP

Do you find it hard to say no? If so you are probably someone who wants to help others and likes to be needed but you are also probably a bit over stretched and maybe end up resenting all of the time you give away to others. The problem many people have with saying no is that they don’t want to offend or upset people, or they are afraid it will damage the relationship in some way. Neuro…
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How to give your children (and husband) feedback using NLP

Do you plan how to give feedback to your kids, or anyone else in your life? Often we don’t, and it might not be received – well. It’s true when we are frustrated, or irritated by something we tend to just say something, and it all comes out wrong. In Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) we study the impact our language has on other people, how the brain actually processes language and this…
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How to manage other people’s trials and tantrums with NLP

When your child or an adult you know flips out, melts down or lashes out, shouts how do you know what’s really going on – and how to deal with it calmly and compassionately? We can all overreact sometimes and when it happens to someone we love it’s hard to know what to do for the best, these extreme reactions often trigger our own. If this is you, someone you work with or someone you…
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Mum IS the Word - 200 Ways to spell the name Mom & Mother in different languages

Mothering Sunday (Mother’s Day) this year comes early on 6th March. So I find myself reflecting on the significance of motherhood in my life and in my fellow mums’ lives too. Mum, mamma, Mutter etc. In whatever language this small word carries a big meaning for all of us. That meaning partly depends on how we feel about our own mothers and grandmothers and also what our communities…
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