International Women’s Day often arrives with floral tributes and hashtags, yet the true weight of the day lies in the quiet, consistent actions you take within your own circles.
Use this time to celebrate the women who hold your world together, from the partner juggling the demands of life admin to the friend who always listens with empathy, or the colleague who champions the success of others. True appreciation moves beyond a single day of recognition and embeds itself into how you show up for the women in your life daily.
Hold Other Men Accountable
Progress means that you actively intervene where women aren’t present to defend themselves. When you hear a sexist joke or witness a colleague being talked over, your silence functions as a form of consent. By challenging these behaviours safely, you set a new standard for what is acceptable in your social and professional groups.
Sharing the mental load at home also provides tangible relief, as taking over the planning of meals or school schedules frees up your partner’s cognitive space for her own passions.
Renew Your Vows With Meaning
For couples wanting to honour their unique journey, renewing your vows serves as a powerful gesture of continued devotion and respect. This ceremony allows you to reflect on the hurdles you have overcome together and the growth your partner has achieved.
Many men choose to mark this significant milestone by gifting a piece of jewellery that reflects modern values and enduring love. You might consider the sleek elegance of lab diamond engagement rings as a contemporary way to refresh her original set while prioritising ethical sourcing.
Selecting a lab-grown diamond for your wife provides a stunning symbol of appreciation that aligns with a conscious lifestyle. Arrange a quiet dinner this weekend to discuss how a ceremony might reflect your shared future.
Lift Up the Women Around You
Supporting the ambitions of the women in your life requires you to be an active advocate rather than a spectator. You can create a world where women feel seen and empowered by recommending them for high-profile opportunities or celebrating their professional wins in public forums.
Offering practical help when life gets busy, such as handling the groceries or managing an errand, allows her the time she needs to focus on her own career goals or personal well-being. Listening without judgement provides a safe harbour for her to express aspirations, which strengthens your emotional bond and validates her experiences. Try taking the lead on a major household chore this week to give her the breathing room she deserves.
Monica Costa founded London Mums in September 2006 after her son Diego’s birth together with a group of mothers who felt the need of meeting up regularly to share the challenges and joys of motherhood in metropolitan and multicultural London. London Mums is the FREE and independent peer support group for mums and mumpreneurs based in London https://www.londonmumsmagazine.com and you can connect on Twitter @londonmums
